Dear steve and shirley,
So recently when i was with my ex our neighbor was a single mother of a little boy. When i met her we clicked instantly, so everyday we would talk bout everything go places together, out to eat, we were like bonnie and clyde, everywhere we went ppl thought we were a couple, her son every calls me Dad. She confided in me with everything. I gave her everything that her previous boyfriends couldnt. She would call me with guy problems that she had like almost everyday. I started feeling like she was the one, we had such a close bond. So when me and my ex split up i decided to try to get with the neighbor a couple months later, she started sayin " not right now", or " i cant do that to my friend, which was my ex" she has morals and blah blah. Crazy thing is she was just a booty call with the guys she used to sleep with. She knew each one had a girl but she didnt care but then she wouldnt date me. So i started to fall back from her. While doing so she would continue to call me and try to talk to me about her problems and i told her i cant do this because i have feelings for her and i cant be friends because me doing so id just want to give my all to her and itd hurt me seeing what shes going thru. Its been about 3 months since i told her that, and every couple days shes calling saying she misses me or call and talk about her problems which is always why do guys play her! She knows im a good man and i dont get why she dont want me but instead settle for bum guys. So now im at this point where i dont know what to do or say when she calls, is it right for me to tell her the truth about the guys she gets with how they only want one thing from her and thats it, or bring out the black side of me and tell her dont call me with her problems anymore? I cant stand to see her hurt like this. Im confused please help?!?!
