Dear Steve and the Crew,
Im 21 living in SC. Im currently talking to this guy 23 from NC. We been talking for 5 years now. Currently he's building on a home he says is for us but he says I cant put my name on the lease because his name is already on the lease. He also told me to finish school, raise 10,000 and he'll get me to NC to be in our home he's building for us. I asked him why didnt he tell me about this home building project when it first came to mind and i explained to him that I feel blocked in. He says it;s because I dont understand. So I asked him are we in a serious relationship and he says "no really to be honest not yet because your not here so I see no point in rushing into things, But who knows and when you get here I'll be willing to start."..... Is this right? Should I give 10,000 to put towards this home? The only information I have about the house is the address and the location and that he's finish with the kitchen. I honestly dont know what to do put pray about it.