The Strawberry Letter 23

STRAWBERRY LETTER FOR TODAY

Date: 05/16/2008
Subject: Wife is the Other Woman

Steve, Shirley My situation is a little different from the normal.I am seeing a married man that loves me and I LOVE HIM. I know that the reason he has not left his wife is because he has a good heart and does not like to hurt people. He thinks that his cheating really devasted his wife so he feels guilty I know she knows about me because I called her several times and told her,I never told him I called and I guess she never told him either because he never mention it.. but she still holds on and makes him feel guilty. (A family member of hers and and friend saw us together)I want the both of us to set down and address this with his wife, like adults but I know he would never agree to do that. I think he is also scared that his kids would turn on him. We deserve to be together, I think his wife is wrong to hold on to a marriage that was over 10 years ago. He told me when we met that he has problems with his marriage. We use to spend a lot of time together, and he'll use any reason to call are stop by ,but he's still there with her. I can't break up a marriage that is already broken, and I feel no guilt because I deserve to be happy too. I can't believe that she would hold on to him to keep me from having him. Should I put it all out there with his wife, and make him choose. I have thought about knocking on his front door, I have driven by their new house several times. I am tired of being put on the back burner....I am not crazy just want to be happy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Name: bklynmom Age: 38 Radio Station: WBLS 107.5 FM New York, NY You have got to be kidding me!!!! It is not his wife's job to make YOU happy....it is YOURS! If you didn't want to be on the backburner, then YOU should've picked a SINGLE man! Geesh. You say that the wife is holding on to the marriage....well so is your lover man, because he obviously hasn't left her. Just as you accept his reasons for not moving on from her, why are you faulting the wife for having her reasons. It really doesn't matter WHY she wants to be with her husband since she knows about you, and it's really none of your damn business. Their MARRIAGE is between them. You weren't there when they said their vows, so you have no right to get all up in their business. You also don't know what HE's telling her. I know someone who was married and ended up talking to the mistress also, and the mistress said to the wife, "well HE said that he asked you for a divorce many times, and you refused". Well that was a damn lie...because the husband had never asked for a divorce because he was quite content being married. BUT, it's something the mistress likes to hear and he's not man enough to be honest because then he knows he won't get the cookie on the regular from the mistress if he tells the truth.."I'm not man enough to make a decision and choose one, and instead for now, I'm going to keep both going". And yes, girlfriend, you are CRAZY because you're spending all this time focusing all your energy on the WIFE, when you should be using that energy on YOUR decisions. If you want to be upset with someone for not ending the marriage, then be upset with your so-called man. If you truly didn't want to be on the backburner, then you would get some cajones and tell him...I need more...I need you to be separated and I won't be in a relationship with you until you move out and get your own place. Then, you step back and see what happens. But, obviously he knows he doesn't want to do that, because if things were THAT bad at home, he would've done that already. I think you're just getting delight of rubbing this in the wife's face. Why don't you find more productive things to do with your time than getting all up into an innocent wife's business. Mind YOUR business...don't mind someone else's.
Name: KayCee Age: 41 Radio Station: WBLS 107.5 FM New York, NY WOW!!!! You are CRAZY... Get a life. KARMA is a $i*ch.
Name: Bloomfield Diva Age: 50 Radio Station: WBLS 107.5 FM New York, NY Dear Crazy, First of all, you do NOT have my sympathy and you are indeed crazy. You cannot find happiness with someone else's husband!! What is wrong with you?? How dare you call the wife?? You are lucky that you are still alive to tell that story. Maybe you need to watch the TV show, "Snapped." Women do NOT play games when it comes to their men - even if that man is no good, he still belongs to her. To close, find your own man, leave hers alone. Nothing good will come out of it if you continue down that path. Finally, get some help because you are definitely not living in the real world.
Name: Dina Age: 34 Radio Station: WBLS 107.5 FM New York, NY This heifer is trying to commit suicide!
Name: kat Age: 43 Radio Station: WBLS 107.5 FM New York, NY I dont understand what is wrong with black women today, are the majority of us so affraid to be alone that we will settle for anything and do & say things that make us look as stupid as the strawberry letter writer is now. she must be young and foolish to beleive their is something more there, then just a pleasure principle situation shes doing things in bed that maybe the wife isn't but hes not going anywhere.. a man knows the difference between an angus peice of beef simmer in gravy & onions verses a cheap peice of beef with 99cent seasons
Name: please do it Age: 21 Radio Station: WBLS 107.5 FM New York, NY You are a complete delusional fool!!!!!!!!!!!!! Please please go knock on their door. Please do it.
Name: Nicole Age: 40 Radio Station: WBLS 107.5 FM New York, NY Dear "I JUST WANT TO BE HAPPY" GO BY HER HOUSE AND FIND OUT WHAT IS GOING TO HAPPEN YOU WILL GET YOUR A$$ HANDED TO YOU ON A PLATINUM PLATTER. I KNOW BECAUSE THE SAME HAPPEN TO ME, AS A MATTER WHY DON'T YOU TELL ME HER NAME,SO I CAN GIVE HER MY PLATINUM PLATTER TO HAND YOU YOUR A$$ ON. YOU HAVE NO POSITION AND NO PLACE MESSING WITH A MARRIED MAN, I JUST HOPE YOU GET MARRIED AND SOMEONE DOES IT TO YOU SO YOU CAN WEAR THE OTHER SHOES AND SEE HOW IT FEELS.
Name: J L Allen Age: 54 Radio Station: WHUR 96.3 FM Washington DC He is greedy and just wants something more and different. He may not be totally satified with his wife but he is committed to her and if you force him to choose it will be his wife that he'll remain with. He did not get the new house with the intent of separating from his wife. I think he got it to please her for all she have given to him over the years. You should except your role in his life and continue to seek a single person that you can call your own. Don't hate on the wife because she love her husband and excepts him for his good and bad behavior. Face it, if he care that much about you he would have left or will leave her for you. You are the "other woman".
Name: Gerald T. Age: 53 Radio Station: WHUR 96.3 FM Washington DC Hello Family. MISS YOU ARE THE OTHER WOMAN- You are crazy! Lets get this out the way, A MARRIED MAN WILL TELL HE HAS PROBLEMS IN HIS MARRIAGE, NO MATTER WHETHER THE PROBLEMS ARE MAJOR OR MINOR. It's his way to get next to you. All marriages have problems, if human beings aren't perfect,so.... Now back to you. You deserve to be happy with this MARRIED MAN. You say you don't want to be a HOMEWRECKER, but you have passed by the new house and thought about knocking on the door and saying, "Here's the real woman YOUR HUSBAND really wants!" You say she makes HER HUSBAND feel guilty, but you secretly call HIS WIFE and tell her you are the other woman. Why can't you try to find a single man and develop a relationship and live a happy life? Why do you think you deserve this MARRIED MAN? Don't think this MARRIED MAN doesn't deserve being dogged out, he's getting it from his wife. Here's a news flash, HE KNOWS HIS WIFE HAS SPOKEN WITH YOU. There are ways that married couples communicate with each other and he knows why HIS WIFEis giving him grief. This man, as you have mentioned, is a good man and doesn't want to hurt his WIFE and have his kids turn on him. But you will never get him, simply because he knows about your speaking to his WIFE. And he's not gonna hurt his WIFE and leave her for an UNTRUSTWORTHY OTHER WOMAN, which is who you are and will always be!
Name: Ron Age: 24 Radio Station: WHUR 96.3 FM Washington DC this woman loves smoking crack
Name: Monica Age: 22 Radio Station: WHUR 96.3 FM Washington DC Wife is the other woman?? Sweety, you are the other woman. If this man has no intention of leaving his wife, why do you continue to see him. You deserve more than second best. If someone loves you, they wouldn't want to see you hurt. With that said, clearly he is still in love with his wife. Even if he's not in love with her anymore, you have to realize that you deserve better. What he is doing is wrong, and there are no excuses for his actions, but he is not the one writing the letter. Go on with your life. Never let a man take your joy and you are seeming to let this man take pieces of yourself. You really need to let go, seriously. As hard as it may be, you really need to let go. It doesn't matter if he loves his wife or not, its that matter that he has no intention of leaving because "he doesn't want to hurt her". so clearly, he'd rather hurt you. Let that man go...what goes around comes around. You need to be careful of what you do to people, cause it will bite you later. The man is not leaving his wife!! Get on with yours!
Name: Kat Age: 46 Radio Station: WHUR 96.3 FM Washington DC NOT CRAZY....Yo A$$ is straight crazy. I wish you would come knock on my door, it'd be the last door your dumb a@@ knocks on....believe dat! You have some nerve. First of all, IF HIS MARRIAGE WAS HAVING PROBLEMS, it's his sorry A@@ that's creating them by dealing with yo triflin' behind. Wow, you're too blind to see that he doesn't want you he just wants what you give him. He ain't NEVA, EVA, EVA gon' leave wifey for you so get over it and find a SINGLE MAN to fall in love with. You done pissed me off this morning with this stupid assed letter....What a fool you are! Get a life and leave them alone before wifey kicks your front teeth out....I know I would. Knock on my door and find out!
Name: Delancia Age: 23 Radio Station: WHUR 96.3 FM Washington DC Okay Lady, You are crazy as hell! What is wrong with you and why would you want someone else's man?! There are a number of issues that you have, obvioulsy, you don't understand that his wife is just that, HIS WIFE! Therefore, his obligation is to her and not to you! This man obviously, doesn't want you like that, you are indeed the other woman, can't you see that this man is in love with his wife? If he wanted to be with you, then he would have left his wife long ago. You are being stupid, by calling this man's wife!!!! This is very dumb on your behalf. I am surprised that he hasn't left you alone by now, especially after you had the audacity to call this man's wife and tell her about you and her husband. Why are you trying to discuss your "place" in this man's life with his wife. Why are you riding pass this man's new house with his wife and daring to knock on their door and break up this family? Then you have the nerve to say that you don't feel guilty? How dare you even think about trying to be THE WOMAN, when it is crystal clear that you are not? This man does not want you like that, you are only there to fulfill his fantasies, you are not his woman, you are his thing. You really need to look in the mirror and do some true soul searching, you have contiplated on this far too much, that you are becoming delirious about the true facts of your relationship with this man. You need to find your own man, someone who is single and all about you. But, first you need to find GOD and repent wholeheartedly about this one. Then, you need to find a man that wants to be with you and pray to GOD that another woman doesn't come along and do the same to you. Because, you will reap what you have sewn. You should be old enough by now to know that men will say and do anything to get what they want. If this man was having so many issues in his marriage, I am sure he would have left by now. But, for you to honestly think that he's in love with you is very foolish and stupid on your part. Go see a therapist and seek GOD's guidance and wisdom, because you have truly lost your DAMN mind!
Name: mecia Age: 35 Radio Station: WHUR 96.3 FM Washington DC YOU ARE CRAZY!!!!!! IF HE WANTED TO LEAVE HE WOULD HAVE BEEN GONE. ALSO DID I JUST READ THAT YOU HAVE DRIVEN PAST THEIR NEW HOUSE? WHEN DID IT BECOME NEW, BECAUSE IF THINGS WERE OVER WHY WOULD HE SIGN ON THE DOTTED LINE FOR A ?? YEAR MORTAGE? WAKE UP!!!
Name: Gale Age: 50 Radio Station: WMXD 92.3 FM Detroit, MI FIRST, LEARN HOW TO WRITE A LETTER. SECOND, YOU ARE STUPID TO THINK THAT THIS MAN IS GOING TO LEAVE HIS WIFE. FINALLY, LEAVE THIS MAN AND HIS WIFE ALONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! YOU ARE A STALKER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Name: Kat Age: 50 Radio Station: WMXD 92.3 FM Detroit, MI Dear Crazy Women, Yes I said it. #1 he got her a new house, #2 if he really loved you he would really be with you. And if you got him what makes you thing somebody else could not get him the same way???????? WAKE UP AND GET YOUR OWN MAN.
Name: Tracie Age: 38 Radio Station: WDAS 105.3 FM Philadelphia, PA You are crazy if you think the wife is the other woman. He is having his cake and eating it too. Since he isn't married to you, there is no question who the other woman is. It ain't the wife!
Name: ROBIN Age: 46 Radio Station: WDAS 105.3 FM Philadelphia, PA YOU NEED JESUS! You are delusional! You have lost your mind and should seek out professional counseling. This man is telling his wife that you are a stalker and won�t leave him alone. He telling her that you are a lair and are crazy. He is still with his wife because he loves her; he has invested his emotions and finances with her. You have shown him that you are a tramp and can not be trusted. HE WILL NEVER LEAVE HIS WIFE FOR A DIRTY LOW DOWN CHEATING, LYING, SNEAKY, SNITCHING, BIG MOUTH, CRAZY, STUPID, DUMB, HO!!!!
Name: Aleta Age: 39 Radio Station: WDAS 105.3 FM Philadelphia, PA Tricksy if you want to be really happy what you need need to find your own man, and leave that woman's man alone. You're a psycho, stalking, trick that need to find a man of your own. You are sinning and you have broken 7,8,9 and 10 of the commandments.
Name: Jae Age: 32 Radio Station: WDAS 105.3 FM Philadelphia, PA I don't care how nice and kind you may perceive this man to be, I don't think that it is humanly possible for a person to endure years of a unhappy relationship, especially a man. And if they were so unhappy, why did they buy a NEW HOUSE? HUMMMMMMM?
Name: Ms. Dee Age: 51 Radio Station: WDAS 105.3 FM Philadelphia, PA Type your Comment Here Hello Morning Crew, I was listening to you show through the web at work, when I heard this crazy letter. Yep, she's crazy as H---, and GHETTO. HE'S STUPID, and his wife has it going on. I have met some women like that and they are selfish and will never be happy and are trying get what they really will never have. Can't she see that she's a longtime bootie call.
Name: Karlett Age: 35 Radio Station: WDAS 105.3 FM Philadelphia, PA You are a very stupid and desperate woman. Why would you want a man who is already married and who cheats on his wife? Can't you find your own man? Men will tell you anything to get what they want and you fell for it. He's not leaving his wife for you sweetie and never had any intentions on doing so. Wake up lady. He'll string you along as long as your trifling self is willing be to be strung. I see you mentioned that they have a "new" house. That's a 30 year commitment that he is willing to have with this wife and family so be prepared to be strung along for 30 more years. The wife ain't worried about you because she knows her husband isn't going anywhere to be with some two bit chick on the side. NEWSFLASH....You'll never be happy with him because God don't like ugly. Now run along and find your own man.
Name: SHARON Age: 35 Radio Station: WDAS 105.3 FM Philadelphia, PA DEAR STEVE AND CREW, I DON'T KNOW WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH THIS CRAZY B---H.WHO DOSE SHE THINK SHE IS ,TRYING TO GET THIS MAN TO LEAVE HIS WIFE. IT'S HAGS LIKE HER THAT MAKE IT BAD FOR WOMEN LIKE MYSELF.IF SHE EVER DOSE GO BY THIS WOMANS HOUSE SHE'S GOING TOO GET CUT.AND IF THE WIFE DON'T DO IT I WILL.LOVE THE SHOW KEEP MAKING THE WORLD SMILE. SHARON FROM NORRISTOWN PA..
Name: Anonoymos Age: 29 Radio Station: WDAS 105.3 FM Philadelphia, PA I am a young married woman who is in a similar situation. I am the wife and my husband have been cheating with another female (to be nice) who is also married. I have on a number of occassions had run in's with this girl. We have came to blows. Based on what my husband says he does not want her he wants me and the family that he has. But it is almost clear that he wants this person because he has been unknowingly cheated with this person behind my back for some years. I always wanted my marriage to work but, I am so confused I almost want to put him out. I am considering taking his clothes and dumping them on her doorstep.
Name: S. Dye Age: 25 Radio Station: KPRS 103 FM Kansas City, MO TWO WORDS..... "PURE STUPIDITY" That's all I can to say. She is REALLY, REALLY, asking for trouble.
Name: Chiquita Blake Age: 37 Radio Station: WBAV 101.9 FM Charlotte, NC Whoever you are real silly aparently this man still have some desire to be with his wife. You need to put yourself in that wife position.Yes you do deserve to be happy just not with someones else husband. You need to PRAY and ask GOD for guidance and direction because truly you are LOST.
Name: Jacob Boulware Age: 39 Radio Station: WBAV 101.9 FM Charlotte, NC well i'll just say any woman or man for that matter of fact,is a sorry and pittiful because they fool around with people while they r married,u see my wife had an affaire on me while i worked every day,but needless to say i moved on with my life and don't care to cantact her.i think people should me man or woman enough to fine thier on who are unatatched,this woman is a stupid and low life whore.if she fool around with a married man,then she will fool around on her on man,if she ever can get one.
Name: Ms. Washington Age: 24 Radio Station: WBAV 101.9 FM Charlotte, NC You aint crazy...YOU ARE STUPID!! You want to be happy but if HE wanted you to be happy he wouldve got a divorce or left you alone a long time ago.Damn, I hate to see stupid women like this. Love aint no justification for disrespecting someone's marriage vows. You should have more respect for yourself than that. His problems aint that bad if he endured them for 10 years and still holding on. If you address his wife you deserve to get whupped all up and down the street. open your eyes and grow up.
Name: Linda Gates Age: 34 Radio Station: WUHT 107.7 FM Birmingham, AL First of all, I would like to say that women you're crazy. No way he's that unhappy with his wife and haven't left. And if he's so unhappy why would he get a NEW home with her. You will always be on the back burner so except it or leave him alone because he is not going to leave his wife. Woman like you is what make GOOD ladies like me look bad. Find your own man!!!!!!
Name: Sabrian Age: 43 Radio Station: WWDM 101 FM Columbia, SC Sounds like this is going to be a FATAL ATTRACTION!
Name: N Age: 37 Radio Station: WWDM 101 FM Columbia, SC She is either CRAZY or RETARDED!!!
Name: Shandreia Lester Age: 29 Radio Station: WAMJ 102.5 FM Atlanta, GA Simply put, you are crazy and stupid and you deserve whatever you have coming to you. You reap what you sow and just know that you acn never build happiness on someone elses sorrow. How you get it is how it will end. I dont think that this man is going to leave his WIFE especially after they have just got a NEW house. What wrong with you women, are we to afraid to be alone that you settle for anything?
Name: Quinetta Age: 30 Radio Station: WAMJ 102.5 FM Atlanta, GA Are you serious??? This has got to be a joke!! What in the heck makes you think, he really want to be with you. First of all...YOU WILL NEVER BE FIRST...you've already accepted being second. Secondly this man has no intentions on leaving his wife. Thirdly you're trifling as hell!!! Women like you make it hard for real women like committed wives!!!! I also say that a man can't cheat unless the woman is willing!!! We as women are the reason men cheat. I say that because 97% of the men who cheat informs the woman that he's got a wife at home, and their dumb behinds go along with it. Lastly the same way you got him is the same way you'll lose him!! I feel sorry for the wife, how dare you blame the wife instead of where the issues really lie. Also, you need to address the issues of what you feel like you deserve a MARRIED MAN!! I guess you don't realize you as well is committing adultery. One of the ten commandments states Thou shalt not commit adultery!
Name: Quinetta Age: 30 Radio Station: WAMJ 102.5 FM Atlanta, GA I didn't realize you type new house....Come on sweetheart..the writings on the wall. He has no intentions on leaving.
Name: Sintoria johnson Age: 33 Radio Station: WAMJ 102.5 FM Atlanta, GA First, of all you stupid. I wish the other woman would request a meeting with me . i would open up a can of whip ass. find your own man !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Name: Mocha Age: 35 Radio Station: WAMJ 102.5 FM Atlanta, GA Type your Comment Here Ma'am, really, you have to operate with some level of intelligence first. Love is a wonderful feeling; however, you must not allow it lead to you operate foolishly. If this man has a wife, you should be not entertaining him in any manner. When/if he is single again, then and only then, should you spend time with him in way that you are doing now. Please don't misunderstand his actions, he is using you and disrespecting the both of you. At no time should you make contact with his wife. Please see that he is still with his wife, have purchased a new house and they are probably somewhat happy. You have allowed him to make you believe he is miserable and don't want to be there. Ma'am, they use those lines on woman that believe them. Please borrow some wisdom and move on!!!
Name: Jay Age: 36 Radio Station: WAMJ 102.5 FM Atlanta, GA In the eyes of the beholder they come to believe what they want. The man will not leave his wife, it's cheaper to keep her, and his wife puts up with the drama. You should move on because it's never gonna happen for you but the same way your getting it now. Stop living this fantasy cause it's never gonna come true. Next time don't get involved with a married man, find someone on your level and press on. Oh by the way the new house is a indication that you ain't never gonna sleep in that house best believe. Move the Hell on... Jay
Name: Rhonda Age: 32 Radio Station: KHTE 96.5 Little Rock, AR She has got to be the ONE of the dumbest women I have yet to see. How in the HELL can the WIFE be the other WOMAN!!! I wish she would come knock on my door! She would have a well whooped azz and I wish he jump in and try to stop me! He take his azz own and me and the kids would have the brand new house! Dumb azz heifer!
Name: KW Age: 37 Radio Station: WMKS 105.7 Greensboro, NC Woman you a complete idiot! If you are stupid enough to go knocking at their front door, don't be surprised if homegirl puts the smackdown on you and you will deserve it. Steve is about to give you an ed-u-ma-cation on your stupid @ss.
Name: EZSPIRIT Age: 43 Radio Station: WVKL 95.7 Norfolk, VA You know women always fall for the line of "i am having problems in my marriage". The line has been used for years and women seem to fall for that line everytime. If he did not want to be there with his wife, he would not. If he did not love his wife, he would not be with her. Men really do not stay because of the kids, but women do. You did the oldest trick in the book and that is to call the wife because you can not seem to get him a way from the wife. Men do not deprive themselves of anything. If they want it the will seek it. He is having his cake and eat it too. You go out together in public. He is living in bless. You have to look at how he view you. Let see, you will sleep with someone else partner. You will go out in public with someone else partner. You will call the partner home. You will stalk the person. What do that look like to you. What are you going to do next? Get pregnant.....
Name: big mac Age: 34 Radio Station: WVKL 95.7 Norfolk, VA Type your Comment Here YOU ARE NOT CRAZY, YOU A$$ JUST PLUMB CRAZY!!! GO AHEAD AND KNOCK ON THE DOOR. I AM PRETTY SURE THEY HEARD THIS OVER THE RADIO. WHILE PASSING BY THERE NEW HOUSE, GO AHEAD AND MEET THERE NEW PITBULL AS WELL. GO AHEAD AND KNOCK, PLEASE. I CAN NOT WAIT TO READ YOUR NEXT LETTER. I AM IN THE HOSPITAL AND HURT BY MY MAN'S WIFE, KIDS, AND FAMILY MEMBERS.
Name: Big C Age: 32 Radio Station: WVKL 95.7 Norfolk, VA Steve, this chick is crazy if you put yourself in that type of situation then you should expect this type of bullshit, and as a man if you marry a woman you should do what ever you have to do to reignite the flame.... GET YOUR WOMAN BACK AKA ITS CHEAPER TO KEEPER!!!!!
Name: Tracy Williams Age: 39 Radio Station: WPWZ 95.5 FM Rocky Mount, NC May the Lord have mercy on this delusional woman because she just does not have a clue. I have been in a situation like this one where the "other" woman treated and talked to me like I was not the wife but the other woman. The wife knows what she is doing and hurray for her for keeping her cool. No, she is not going to tell her husband that the fool is calling her. Dummy has to realize the wife will always have the upper hand in a situation like this one. All dummy have to do is sit down and think about it. Ten years,please! YOU HAVE BEEN A DUMMY FOR TEN YEARS. YOU WILL NEVER HAVE THAT MAN THE WAY YOU WANT HIM UNLESS WIFEY WANTS YOU TOO,DUMMY!!!!!
Name: ms. kelley Age: 40 Radio Station: WBTP-FM 95.7 Tampa, FL YOU DUMMY THE WIFE IS NOT THE OTHER WOMEN, YOU ARE!!!! YOU ARE THE ONE HE HAVE TO SNEAK AND MAKE EXCUSES TO SEE NOT HER AND IF YOU DESERVE TO BE HAPPY BE HAPPY WITH YOUR OWN MAN, NOT SOMEONE ELSES HUSBAND. IF THAT WAS ME I WOULD DO THE SAME THING, HE NEEDS TO BE MADE FEEL GUILTY HE SHOULDN'T HAVE NEVER DONE IT, AND BY YOU CALLING ONLY MAKE THE SITUATION EVEN WORSE. SHE DONT SAY ANYTHING TO HIM SHE JUST SQUEEZE HIM A LITTLE MORE.
Name: AKA Pam Age: 53 Radio Station: WBTP-FM 95.7 Tampa, FL I want you to be happy as well. Remember only YOU are responsbile for your happiness!!! It's not the man or his wife who are making you unhappy; it's you!!! If you keep thinking like you are thinking and not look at the whole picture you will continue to be used by this man. If he wanted to leave his wife he would. This is 2008 not 1928. All marriages have problems...that comes with being married. Please make a life for yourself, get out and find activities with purpose in the community to involve yourself in. You can still continue to "talk" to this married man BUT don't have any sexual relations with this man every again until he marries you! I assure you once the illicit activities stop between the two of you his level of caring will be ZERO!!! Please stop talking about this man's wife she probably is LAUGHING at you or praying for you. You deserve both!!! You need to catch onto all the real clues and wake UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Name: Kesha Age: 34 Radio Station: WPRW-FM 107.7 Augusta, GA You are the other woman. Know you place! You have already called the wife and told her. Now she is aware of you, however, she is still with him. What is the use of making a scene? If you feel you are on the back burner, then that is where you are suppose to be. Remember you are NOT the wife, who will always come first no matter how he feels about you. They just bought a new house, meaning he ain't planning on leaving her. Wake up and smell the coffee. You are getting played! You are destined to be played when you are messing with a married man. What makes this situation different from any "other woman" situation?
Name: Nicole Johnson Age: 32 Radio Station: WJHM-FM 101.9 Orlando, FL OOOOOOHHH YES YOU ARE! But crazy is an understatement, you are STUPID!!!!! Just like he's lying to you, he's lying to her but she is getting the perks like a new house. She's not doing the holding on, YOU are! The reason he has not left his wife is because he is not going to. You need to wake up! The same computer you used to send this letter, you need to use to enroll in some of those matchmaker sites for sickos like yourself.
Name: Michelle Age: 32 Radio Station: WQUE-FM Q93 New Orleans, LA You must be out of your mind! You mentioned the fact that you've driven past THEIR NEW HOUSE several times. Isn't that a hint and a half. Wake up, it's time to move on. Obviously he doesn't want to be with you because if he did, he would've left her a long time ago and he would've purchased a new home with you. He's getting the best of both worlds by having you AND his wife. Don't be stupid anymore, go out and find someone who's going to love You and be as committed as you are to the relationship.
Name: Shundra Age: 34 Radio Station: KIIZ FM Z 92.3 Killeen, TX If she goes and knocks on that door she will get just what she deserves. She is (as my gramdma used to say), a plum fool!! I blame him as well as her, but hey he is a man. Any woman in her right mind knows that 9 times out of 10 that a man ain't going nowhere. They just bought a new house...he in for at least the next 15-30 years. Just as the old saying goes, "it's cheaper to keep her". And he is doing just that..keeping his wife not this insane in the membrane fool. She needs to get a life and get her "own" man before the Mrs. breaks her off something fo sho!!
Name: Erika Age: 30 Radio Station: KIIZ FM Z 92.3 Killeen, TX Fisrt off this man don't love you. He just told you that to keep you around. He ani't leaving his wife and kids for you. Why? Becasue he would lose big time and if you think he's gonna lose that for you then you are beyond stupid. Every married man that has ever cheated on his wife says they have problems in the marriage. So you're just other dumb ho that fell for it. Yall use to sopend a lot of time togehter because you were a hot item and now you're not anymore. You think this is the first time he 's cheated and he fell in love. Wrong you're one of many suckers that has been tricked by this man ''trick''. So why don't you go find your own man leave this woman's husband alone. What's going to happen in the long run is the police will be involved because your butt is crazy and can't get the hint to leave. You will be the only one looking stupid. Well already do now. I can't stand woman like you thinking that you entitled to be with another woman's husband. But you a ''you know what'' so you probably don't now any better. But you will find out.
Name: Corneil Hall Age: 30 Radio Station: WWLD FM 102.3 Tallahassee, FL Why would you want somone who is cheating on his wife. If he is cheating on her he will do it to you. You are not even looking at the whole situation, you are just blinded by this guy lies! she is gullable and have low self confidence if you have to date a married man to be married. The final thing he is till with his wife, after you told her...hmmmmmmm! You might need to seek help!
Name: Latonya Wyche Age: 35 Radio Station: WWLD FM 102.3 Tallahassee, FL This lady is really STUPID.That man don't want her and he is not going anywhere.