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How To Beat The Online Dating Game

If you use online dating the right way it increases your dating pool. If you’re using it the wrong way well… you’re probably spending a lot of time swiping instead of dating. Here are a few tips to beat the online dating game!

Don’t forget my #1 rule, get a burner phone! Get more dating tips from Bela Gandhi on my website, under Relationships!

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  1. I don’t deal with the 2 phones, though I like the idea. Maybe it is b/c I am older or I just don’t like chatting on the phone. In my profile, I state that I won’t give out my number (b/c I don’t want more texting buddies) until we meet. I will give my number the day of the date in case we can’t find each other or an emergency occurs (I don’t keep the app on my phone). I have never been bothered after a date, if it is not a match. If I am, I will just block the number. I prefer to not talk on the phone and/ or face chat as I can’t feel someone’s energy and I think sitting down in a natural setting lets us both be us.

  2. Hi Steve I am Carol in Pittsburgh. I have been watching all your programs and think you have your own unique impressive style. Following your advice, the online dating has not worked out for me so far. Could you please find me a match. I am 67 and still searching. I have 3 grown independent kids and it is time for me to have a life from being a single mom. Please, I need your help.

  3. I am 73 but do not look my age people guess me lots of times in my 50 i am in good shape and active i have been on Blackpeople meet for some years Men show they interest but end up we do not meet so i move on I need help to see what i am doing wrong Thanks

  4. Rather than 2 phones, to can get the Google voice app and give that # out. It works like a 2nd line on your cell phone. No one can trace it back to you and your personal info.

    1. When a man contacts you on a dating site and wants to meet you. Asks you where and when, then the next day out of the blue brings up a place in his town. So I ask did you bring that up because you want me to come to you? He says no, just that its a new place on the water. Its a waffle house…not a good place for a first time. So, my question is? Is this a red flag?

  5. Why do people say “But, I don’t look my age”? Unless you’re unbelievably much younger looking to the point that everyone you meet tells you that, it’s actually pretty vain to declare that in your into for yourself. I am 60 and I just can’t get over all these men who claim they don’t look their age…… Just ask a true friend to give you the honest truth. Tired of seeing men younger than myself looking like Santa Claus. #GimmeADecentLookingPartner

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