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How To Beat The Online Dating Game

If you use online dating the right way it increases your dating pool. If you’re using it the wrong way well… you’re probably spending a lot of time swiping instead of dating. Here are a few tips to beat the online dating game!

Don’t forget my #1 rule, get a burner phone! Get more dating tips from Bela Gandhi on my website, under Relationships!

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  1. I don’t deal with the 2 phones, though I like the idea. Maybe it is b/c I am older or I just don’t like chatting on the phone. In my profile, I state that I won’t give out my number (b/c I don’t want more texting buddies) until we meet. I will give my number the day of the date in case we can’t find each other or an emergency occurs (I don’t keep the app on my phone). I have never been bothered after a date, if it is not a match. If I am, I will just block the number. I prefer to not talk on the phone and/ or face chat as I can’t feel someone’s energy and I think sitting down in a natural setting lets us both be us.

  2. Hi Steve I am Carol in Pittsburgh. I have been watching all your programs and think you have your own unique impressive style. Following your advice, the online dating has not worked out for me so far. Could you please find me a match. I am 67 and still searching. I have 3 grown independent kids and it is time for me to have a life from being a single mom. Please, I need your help.

  3. I am 73 but do not look my age people guess me lots of times in my 50 i am in good shape and active i have been on Blackpeople meet for some years Men show they interest but end up we do not meet so i move on I need help to see what i am doing wrong Thanks

  4. Rather than 2 phones, to can get the Google voice app and give that # out. It works like a 2nd line on your cell phone. No one can trace it back to you and your personal info.

    1. When a man contacts you on a dating site and wants to meet you. Asks you where and when, then the next day out of the blue brings up a place in his town. So I ask did you bring that up because you want me to come to you? He says no, just that its a new place on the water. Its a waffle house…not a good place for a first time. So, my question is? Is this a red flag?

  5. Why do people say “But, I don’t look my age”? Unless you’re unbelievably much younger looking to the point that everyone you meet tells you that, it’s actually pretty vain to declare that in your into for yourself. I am 60 and I just can’t get over all these men who claim they don’t look their age…… Just ask a true friend to give you the honest truth. Tired of seeing men younger than myself looking like Santa Claus. #GimmeADecentLookingPartner

  6. please I’m 32 and I need a wife to marry I’m in ghana and I’ve not been dating for the past 5yrs just wanna wait to get married.because I did not want to commit fornication and sin against my God .

  7. Hello, It would be such an honor to meet you two (Marjorie and Steve). Trying to advance our God-given talents and gifts and learning to be an Entrepreneur along with my daughter Lovie and her love for crocheting. Gosh, I don’t have a hoop la of tales to just grab you alls attention Until you can see what I have to offer. Help make our dream move from impossible to possible!!! Please and thanks to the both of you… mostly for your time!!! (Consider Us)

  8. Hi Steve I am Sona in Massachusetts a big fun of your shows Family Feud and other inspirational programs tried to find you for all the 7 years I have been in America. I am 47 years now and would like you to help me find a partner for a long term relationship. I have tried online dating but never been successful. It doesn’t work for me. I am sure with your guidance and advise I will find a friend and partner. Please help me

    1. For great tips and advice, check out: https://www.smartdatingacademy.com/

  9. Hi Steve. I’m a single man. I live in Germany and I’m 37 years old. I had organized so many dates from dating apps but all of them weren’t my real choice. Can you help me to find a good partner please?
    With regards.

  10. I have been a widow for 8 years I am 56 years old I have started online dating I spike with 4 men since I started the last guy made a fool of me He had been speaking with me for 2 months we agreed that it was time to meet I rented a hotel half way between were we both lived he did not show up nor did he get in touch to explain I think I am quitting any advice

  11. Im 35 yrs from Saint Lucia thats in the Caribbean im a single father of 1 I have been in 3 relationships im here still searching for the right woman

  12. Hi Steve, I’m Josie from Papua New Guinea, I’m 38 years old. I have never been married and am still looking for a partner to marry. I have a full time job and am willing to move with my partner. I hope you can help me to find a partner. Thank you

  13. Hi madam josephine, how are you doing? I would like to know how to go online dating please! Thanks

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