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Steve’s Updated 14 Questions Every Woman Should Ask on a First Date

As the CLO - Chief Love Officer, I want to help women out there find love.

As the CLO – Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey wants to help women out there find love. So here are 14 questions every woman should ask on a first date.

14 Questions Every Woman Should Ask on the 1st Date

1. WHAT DO YOU VALUE MOST IN A RELATIONSHIP?

2. WHAT QUALITY IS MOST ATTRACTIVE TO YOU IN A PARTNER?



3. WHAT IS YOUR RELATIONSHIP LIKE WITH YOUR PARENTS?

4. WHAT ARE YOUR LONG-TERM GOALS?

5. NAME THREE THINGS YOU’D LIKE TO HAVE IN COMMON WITH YOUR PARTNER?

6. WHAT MAKES YOU LAUGH?

7. WHAT IS ONE THING YOU WON’T TOLERATE IN A RELATIONSHIP?

8. WHAT IS YOUR BIGGEST STRENGTH AND WEAKNESS?

9. ARE YOU FAMILY ORIENTED?

10. HOW DO YOU SPEND YOUR DOWNTIME? (The older you are, the more important this is. This gives insight to income, without asking that and putting the man off, but make sure it is funded by credit card debt.)

11. WHAT DO YOU BELIEVE IS YOUR WORST QUALITY?

12. ARE YOU A GRUDGE HOLDER?

13. WHAT IS THE LONGEST RELATIONSHIP YOU’VE BEEN IN AND WHY DID IT END?

14. FOR WHAT IN LIFE DO YOU FEEL THE MOST GRATEFUL?

Did I inspire you?  Check out match.com or eharmony.com and get dating.



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  1. 1. Trust, Honesty, Respect and Good Sense of Humor not boring.

    2. Trustworthy, loving, caring, and strong foundation.

    3. My father passed. My mom when we do not live together due to controlling and overbearing at times.

    4. Financially-Secured and Living Life to the fullest in everything we do free of chaos.

    5. Trust, Communication/Listening Skills, and Compassion.

    6. Comedy films; stunts such as SNL, funny faces; Comedians such as Colbert, Leno.

    7. Dishonesty – lies – cover-up.

    8. Strength: Too many to list – Main Strength is Problem-Solver. Weakness is patience.

    9. Somewhat.

    10. 50/50. Financially secured and not struggle as a couple. No hiding things from each other or unexpected surprises.

    11. High strong.

    12. Usually not. What bothers me is when justice is not served accordingly.

    13. 15 years – ended because of the daily Physical and Verbal Abuse. Overcame Victim of Domestic Violence.

    14. My Health and trying to Living Life to the Fullest with what I have.

  2. Thank you Steve. As a single woman at age 62 I find these very helpful. I haven’t gone on a date in many years, however, I am often
    asked out. When I do I will have the right questions.

  3. 1. WHAT DO YOU VALUE MOST IN A RELATIONSHIP?
    Within a relationship, the attributes that I value most are honesty, integrity, openness, by openness I’m saying that He is willing to be vulnerable to and with me. Maturity. Empathy. The ability to be affectionate.

    2. WHAT QUALITY IS MOST ATTRACTIVE TO YOU IN A PARTNER?
    The quality that is most attractive within a partner for me is that he is dedicated/loyal/trustworthy.

    3. WHAT IS YOUR RELATIONSHIP LIKE WITH YOUR PARENTS?
    My relationship with my parents is very loving, giving, and endearing, everything to me. Means the world to me.

    4. WHAT ARE YOUR LONG-TERM GOALS?
    My long term goals are to have someone to share my life, my time with within what I call the final act, retirement, travel, marriage, before the
    epilogue of my life.

    5. NAME THREE THINGS YOU’D LIKE TO HAVE IN COMMON WITH YOUR PARTNER?
    The three things that I would like for my life partner and I to have in common are, to have a viable/faithful relationship with God, our values, and compassion for others.

    6. WHAT MAKES YOU LAUGH?
    What makes me laugh, family time, hanging with my woman friends/ hanging out, sharing dinner, a movie.

    7. WHAT IS ONE THING YOU WON’T TOLERATE IN A RELATIONSHIP?
    I will not tolerate dishonesty within my relationship.

    8. WHAT IS YOUR BIGGEST STRENGTH AND WEAKNESS?
    My biggest strength is that I’m Loyal and my weakness is that I’m too giving of my heart.

    9. ARE YOU FAMILY ORIENTED?
    I’m absolutely family oriented.

    10. HOW DO YOU SPEND YOUR DOWNTIME?
    I spend my downtime, relaxing, doing whatever it is that I want to do, be it an evening out with friends, curled up on the sofa with a fun read, sleeping, listening to music, watching a movie, going to dinner and a movie alone, going shopping, sleeping, pampering myself, and I want to travel more.

    11. WHAT DO YOU BELIEVE TO BE YOUR WORST QUALITY?
    My worst quality would be that in the past I stayed too long, too loyal, in relationships that were not good for and to me.

    12. ARE YOU A GRUDGE HOLDER?
    I’m absolutely not a grudge holder. Never have been, or will I ever be a grudge holder.

    13. WHAT IS THE LONGEST RELATIONSHIP YOU’VE BEEN IN AND WHY DID IT END?
    My longest relationship was to be for 4years before I ended the relationship. The relationship ended for I had no desire to continue to give more of me to someone who was not worthy of me continuing to give him the best of me.

    14. FOR WHAT IN LIFE DO YOU FEEL THE MOST GRATEFUL?
    I feel the most grateful for God’s Love, Grace, and Tender Mercies that are given to me daily by God. God has loved and forgiven me through the storms of my life. That I know how I am supposed to be loved because of Gods love and teachings, life lessons have taught me.

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